Coping with the Loss of a Dog: Strategies to Help You Heal
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Losing your dog can be an extremely difficult and painful experience. While everyone experiences dog loss differently, there are a few strategies that can help you move forward and heal from the loss of your beloved companion.
In this post (and video), we will discuss Coping with the Loss of a Dog: Strategies to Help You Heal.
Please know, these strategies are not meant to eliminate the pain and grief of dog loss, but to help you navigate through your loss and help you find peace.
Here are Four Things to Help You Cope with the Loss of Your Dog.
Write it Down
Find a notebook and a pencil and write down what happened and how you are feeling right now.
Getting everything out on paper can help you find relief. All of your guilt, sadness, and fears. Your pencil may not be able to keep up with the words that will pour out.
When you are finished writing, the spinning in your head will stop and the weight of the shock will be released.
You aren’t done with being sad, but this will help you be able to breathe again and it’s your first step towards mourning the loss of your beloved companion.
Talk About Them
Keep talking about your dog. Don’t shy away or avoid those happy memories you had with your pup. The time together with your companion cannot be based on how it all ended.
Death does not represent the whole relationship you had with your dog. Reflect and focus on the positive memories that you shared.
Make a Memorial
Celebrating the memory of your beloved dog is a good way of establishing closure.
- Write a letter to your dog. Tell them how much they meant to you.
- Create a shadow box for their collar.
- Make a picture collage.
- Have a special funeral.
- Reserve a special space in your home or at your favorite park to spend time remembering your dog.
- Plant a tree or a flower in their memory.
- Make a memorial donation to an animal charity.
There really is no wrong way to memorialize your dog’s life and the special experiences you shared with them. You can choose as simple or as elaborate as you like. Your choice of a memorial is unique to you.
Video You May Like: Here’s a quick video on how to make a beautiful shadow box for your dog.
Take Care of Yourself
Grieving the loss of your dog can be draining emotionally and physically. Finding ways to feel normal again is an important step towards healing. Develop new routines and make adjustments that define your life moving forward.
Make Time to Heal
Give yourself permission to grieve the loss of your dog. Take special time out of your day to just stop and sit quietly, cry, or just take some deep breaths. Allowing yourself to show your feelings is not a sign of weakness. This is a part of healing to help you be able to move forward.
Get Involved
Attend social events, join exercise classes, or do some volunteering. Getting yourself out there can help give you and your mind a break from everything.
Reach Out For Help
Seek out support from your dog-loving friends, join a pet loss support group, or talk to a counselor. They can offer you genuine sympathy for your loss.
Talking with other dog parents who have experienced the death of a dog can be extremely helpful with the grieving process. If you don’t feel comfortable talking to other people, try art therapy. Counseling and therapy will help you release so much pain and grief.
Meditation
Practicing calming methods like meditation or prayer can help clear your mind and allow you to feel more grounded. Meditation helps to actively focus on your breathing and release any stressful tension or anxiety in your body.
Keep this in mind, there is no time limit on grief.
It is yours alone, not someone else’s. Be patient with yourself and allow the process to run its course naturally.
What has helped you grieve the loss of your dog?
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Hello, I recently lost my sweet Molly of 12 years coming on a month now. I was aware of her age, I remember when I first noticed her steps and walks become slower months before her passing. One day she got sick and I believe it was 3 or 4 days later she got worse and passed on a Thursday around 2-3 a.m. I was kicked in the gut painfully by the shock that this was it, this is where we split ways. I often imagined how painful loosing Molly wpuld be over the years and the thought of saying goodbye to her made my heart shatter with sadness. I now live with a reality that was sometimes a heartbreaking thought. The first day or two I was still in shock I would say, but as that first week of her passing the “quietness” was the loudest I had ever noticed. The hardest was at night. I live with my parents for the time being and before that I had a boyfriend whom was paralyzed and slept in his own hospital bed. I was more than used to it only being me and molly when we slept. The reality of not sharing my bed like I did with her for my entire 20’s was a weird feeling I believe you cant describe it unless you understand what that absence feels like. I hated to be in my bedroom (our) room,I would catch myself looking into the direction she had her bed in my room everytime I would enter my room. Dinner time was and still is especially difficult. She loved laying on the mat watching my mom cook, Molly LOVED FOOD haha, the more emotional part was I was used to giving my piggy my left over meat or Mac n Cheese because Molly LOVED ANYTHING WITH CHEESE. Molly’s favorite snack was peanut butter. I couldn’t make me a peanut butter sandwich without either sharing some of mine or I would sometimes make her a fold over amd we would eat together. The stories of that ham (my favorite nickname for her) are infinite. My grieving period has just begun and I am coping as best as I know how. I will never forget her. Most importantly I will never stop loving her with my whole soul until we meet again. When she was passing I sang amazing grace for some reason that song was what I started singing and then I told her to wait for me in heaven, I won’t look the same but it will still be me. The amount of pain I felt in my heart, my whole core being when I said that to her was more than I can explain. When I couldn’t do anything to help her, that hurt more than words could express. I sometimes still don’t know how to explain the emotions I experience during this time. I do hope my story has touched other dog parent’s hearts and I pray for everyone’s journey to be what they should be and during the pain we gain so much greatness because we loved and still love a soul that is only possible in this way. The heart ans soul that only a dog was gifted. Take care all.
I’m so incredibly sorry for the loss of your sweet Molly. I can feel how deeply she was loved in every word you shared. Molly was a wonderful companion. Thank you for sharing your story with us. I hope, with time, the memories of Molly will bring more comfort than pain. Sending you so much love and gentle hugs. 🐾❤️